I think it’s every girl’s dream. You are entering a club and there he is. Standing out in the middle of a hundred gorgeous men. And he looks at you as well. You are locking eyes and you just move towards him because you feel encouraged today. Actually, you were looking for your friend but that can wait. You just have eyes for him. He smiles at you with this electrifying smile but not intimidating. Just inviting. You start talking and your chemistry is visible to everyone. You start dancing together. You find out he’s alone here and he doesn’t drink. Such stories are rare and also hardly ever end with marriage and 2 kids like in the case of one of my best friends who met her partner that way. That sounds too easy, doesn’t it?
And then this…
Well and then your drunk friend is interrupting and making a scene. And that’s the point where you find out, that your friend is in love with you. He gets really annoying to both of us and you try to get away with your new crush. You find a quiet space on the other corner of the dancefloor and start making out. You forget everything around you and all those hundreds of people who can watch your little action.
Happy end for him
You start to talk to your friend again who is just upset and leave with your prey. It’s a mild evening, even though it’s in the middle of November. You continue making out in the middle of the quiet street. You don’t want to go home with him, you don’t know why and he asks for your number. You say, you just give it to him if he will use it. He promises and you keep making out, feel his hard junk and give him a handjob in the middle of the street because you felt like it. The sun is rising and you go home.
Happy end for you?
He doesn’t text you but you match on a dating app half a year later. He finally uses your number and you stop texting.
Wait – that wasn’t that every girl’s dream. Somewhere it took a wrong turn.
